What I got during the 2 days we were with you at Unity of Rehoboth Beach:
To be in the moment “again for the first time” That was a gift. It was a good reminder.
Brought you our son, Jeff, and cousin Kim. Hope they both have further contact with you and Shannon. Jeff has a guru and he like me is a “know it all” kind a guy and compensates for being not good enough. In my view, cousin Kim has been abused and neglected by her parents. So she wants to do it her way. She also has high tolerance to alcoholic spirits. Like me, she can be a Doctor Jekyll and Mr Hyde. It will do them some good to hang out with you two for awhile.
Loved hearing how much you depend on Shannon and what special gifts she brings to the relationship. And how great she was, perhaps more advanced than your “ego self”. (Could have said that better.) And she contributes to you being your Sacred Self. Lis is that for me too. And I’m still a “jerk” more often than I’d like to be. Yet that transforms too. Thank God. I’m so blessed.
I can still use all the help I can get. I’m a guy. Because it’s hard for me to let her simply be. I want to diagnose and heal her hurts that has her suffer instead of kissing and stroking her where it hurts. I need to remind myself that life is all only about love and “energy” and not necessarily “my”projects. I’m getting that I have to love and allow myself to feel what she is feeling and love her and let her be.
Yet, there is a lot of evidence that suggests that my projects are at the heart heart of the matter. I am clear that males especially white men must first love women, and then love and protect our children along with all sentient beings as our selves.
We “men” arrogantly make ourselves the the head of the food chain and force our women to believe the same. We raise animals to feed us and cause global worming and leave our dying planet to grand children to deal with.
Animals fight to keep alive. They get quite upset and that activity remains in their bodies when they are eaten thus causing us men to kill each other in hopeless wars. It justifies us to have enemies.
We men have to learn that we don’t have enemies. There isn’t a real word for enemy. The word for enemy is “not a friend”. There are no such word as an”enemy” in language. Origin: Middle English. Old French enemi and Latin, i, from inimicus, from in- ‘not’ + amicus ‘friend’. I’ll make this clear to you some other time. I will have to research Sanskrit. Right now I’m supposed to be cooking.
Loved talking to you and sharing some of what I’m up to.
You occurred for me as open and honest and free to share from your heart your relationship to food when it comes to eating animals and ingesting milk products.
You helped me while I was on the on the floor at the workshop. I was unable to be with my discomfort and pain in my body at early on. Later, I simply thought of it as energy and not something wrong. Pain is simply energy. The next day I had a miracle. I didn’t feel heat nor sweat from humidity when I went for a more than a half hour walk. I should have. It was 90 % plus humidity and 87 degrees. That was cool.
I’m bringing forth to the whole cosmos, love, peace, safety and social harmony for all conscious beings – specially children and baby chicks – with Grace and ease – Now!
This is my priestly, sacred vow.
See you later,
Bob Haggett (or if you wish, Father Bob)
~ “Father” Bob